This is a more detailed version of what really went down. Before my grandmother passed away, my mom warned me about my father. She told me that didn’t really know him, but that I’ll find out as soon as my grandmother passed. My grandmother had diabetes for long part of her life. Turns out that the medicine she had been taking for years have his cancer in the stomach. So we set her room up tho make her as comfortable as we can for her in my parents home. In 2009, a day after Thanksgiving she didn’t wake up. She died in her sleep with family. Shortly, very shortly, my dad told my brother to get out of the home we lived in for 5 years. Just like that he had brother pack his things and go. It was a shock but I didnt think to think back on what my mom had told. That same year, the father of two of of my children, I could tell was going through some things but all I could do was do my best to assist with whatever the kids needed. Starting with the fact that after the 2-3 days visit with him, I would pick them and they stank. That was the first time CPS was called. Another time was after my daughter got headlice and that was a hassle to get rid of. And ever time we did, she’d get right back. Did you know that lice like to stick to clean hear? Dirty hair is too oily and slippery for them to cling onto. ANyway, I finally had to take him back to court. I had the date set when one day I get a phone call from him telling me he was getting arrested. My babies were icked up a neighbor who escorted them to school. A couple days later, he at an immigration detention center pending deportation. I still had a child custody court date to go to. He was deported on a Thursday, the court the following Tuesday. I was granted full custody with the children’s rights to visit him in El Salvador. What mother granted full custody of her children be sad? The circumstances. My babies were devastated. My daughter is an introvert, my son extravert. My daughter holds back and holds in her emotions. My son will let you know exactly how he feels. So was letting all of us know he was hurting. To top it off, a couple of months later, as he was making his way back from El Salvador to the US, he was in Honduras which if not the same worse than El Salvador. Something happened that even my children felt. For some reason my had came home with the back of his head hurting. And then while my daughter was sleeping, she wakes up and spews white stuff out of her mouth. Not even her dinner. I run to her and i feel she has a fever. Her temp was at 99.8. I cslled my mom to ask her if she had any tylenol for children. I run to her house to get it. When i got back her fever was at 102. TO make long story short. A couple days later their calls me to tell me that he had been in the hospital after being hit in the back of his head (my son) with a gun and he had npbeen fighting for his life (my daughter). This was 2010-11. By the end of 2011, I was so depressed.
God doesn’t put anything for you you can’t handle.
Can we create what God did? 