What are your values?

What do you value the most in life? Are they family values? Are they values you have lived with almost all your life? Are they values that fit into your life everyday? For my, all of my life I valued family above anything else. No matter what, I had the most respect, their best interest, and if I had it they did too. When my broher would sleep in his car because my father wouldn’t open the door for him but wouldn’t give him a key either; I told him to come knock on my door whenever. When my father kicked my niece out, she came to me, I didn’t turn her away. When my cousin’s son who I had only met 2 or 3 times in his life-time came knocking on my door at 3AM, was I supposed to pretend I didn’t know him, point and laugh at him, or act like I wasn’t home? How about when my niece was ten years old and my sister would take off for the weekends which extended from Thursday – Tuesday. Should I had called cps for abandonment? NO! You keep it moving by making them feel as good as they possibly can so they can think about it and work out what they going through. You eliminate everything and anything to stress them out. My life was completely turned upside down and it kept tossing and turning and flippinb and flopping and tumbling and twirling. The next part of my life really helped me build character. I did it with grace and dignity. I had to do evrything and anything to protect my babies. I survived the betryal and the deceit. The physical abuse starts becomng more and more real. It wasn’t a state of disassociation. It is real as fuck.